Wednesday, April 2, 2008

Turning Her On...And Not Turning Her Off

April 2, 2008: Our guest on this week's Sex Files was the super sharp (and supergorgeous) Lauren Frances, PH Double D:

Lauren is a love coach and author of Dating, Mating and Manhandling: The Ornithological Guide to Men, a book that, while written to give women insights on how to attract and land a man, is also helpful to you males — because if you know what a woman is learning to snare you, you'll earn insight into what to look for, and how to turn her on.

Lauren provided heaps of great insight. One of the most important is the first thing you should do on a first date. "Guys," she says, "compliment a woman within 2 minutes of meeting her." Why? Well, you may think that holding back will put you in a power position or make you seem coolor, but the fact is, says Lauren, "all women are insecure about their bodies. Even supermodels." So when you see your date walking down the stairs toward you, find something to compliment about her within those first 2 minutes. And by the way, the old standby — " look gorgeous" — always works.

But if it's a Playboy model you're trying to compliment, go for an unexpected compliment, like, "Hey, you're really smart." Or take Anna's advice that will make any woman feel clever: When she asks a question, say, "Wow, that's a really good question." Because the better she feels about herself, the more likely you'll both feel better...together.

Check out Lauren's site at

And tune into the Sex Files on Sirius Maxim channel 108 next Wednesday at 2 p.m. EST (11 a.m. PT) for more great love and sex insight from the girls who can double your chances at pleasure!

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