Get Her to Love the Real You

Good news today: Schlubby guys can get the girl, and it doesn't require an overhaul to do it.

We learned this from our guest New York Post writer and reporter Max Gross, author of the hilarious new book From Schlub to Stud, in which he learns how to get a girl to love you for who you really are—schlubby clothes and all.

Also on the show this week was Phil, returning guest co-author of the book What Men Don't Want Women to Know.

As Max explained, it's all about developing confidence, asking out lots and lots of girls (rejection gets easier after the umpteenth time), and letting girls see your talents—are you funny like Max? a good pool player? a good cook?

And it wouldn't hurt to hint to a girl that you'd be happy to let her make you over—you know we girls can't resist a before and after. Just be sure to put off showing her your schlubby apartment for as long as possible.

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