Can Women Separate Love and Sex?

Well, who better to ask than the woman who wrote a compelling, amusing and disarmingly honest piece on the topic? We're talking about Jennifer Armstrong, who co-edits the witty and wise ezine Sirensmag with Heather Wood Rudolph -- who will also be joining us out of our L.A. studio. Tune in to find out if she wants to love you or just be your booty call (yes, we hear this is possible).

Tune into Sex Files live on Sirius Maxim Channel 108, Wednesdays at 2 p.m. EST (11 a.m. Pacific). The show replays at 11 p.m. EST (8 p.m. Pacific), throughout the weekend, and again at 2 and 11 p.m. EST (11 a.m. and 8 p.m. Pacific) on the following Monday.

Sex and the Single Mom

We get calls and emails from lots of you guys who are dating or want to date single women who happen to have an extra appendage of sorts: a child. And as your questions indicate, it makes dating and sex pretty dang tricky.

So this week, we're doing you all one huge favor: We're bringing two sexy, sassy single moms into the studio to explain what single moms want, need and will do anything for when it comes to dating and sex. After all, single moms obviously have sex (well, they did at least once!), and seeing how difficult taking care of a child can be, they may just be dying to have some alone time with you.

So this week, we will be joined by Christine Coppa, who writes for Glamour magazine's blog Storked!, and is currently working on Rattled!, a book about surviving as a single mom due out in April.


We also have Rachel Sarah, author of the hilarious how-hard-it-is-to-date book, Single Mom Seeking

They'll tell you how to approach a single mom, what to say, what never to say, and exactly how to work your way into a single mom's heart and, well, her bedroom. Tune in for what should be a surprisingly fun and sexy show!


Tune into Sex Files live on Sirius Maxim Channel 108, Wednesdays at 2 p.m. EST (11 a.m. Pacific). The show replays at 11 p.m. EST (8 p.m. Pacific), throughout the weekend, and again at 2 and 11 p.m. EST (11 a.m. and 8 p.m. Pacific) on the following Monday.

Talking Dirty

You've heard people doing it. Maybe you've even indulged in it yourself, or wish you were better at it.

There's definitely an art to talking dirty. And who better to explain it to us than Ellen Sussman, the editor of the oh-so-sexy-yet-erudite collection of essays Dirty Words and one of her contributors, the fierce and fabulous (and returning guest) Abiola Abrams?

Listen in for a vocab lesson far different than any you've ever had before.

Tune into Sex Files live on Sirius Maxim Channel 108, Wednesdays at 2 p.m. EST (11 a.m. Pacific). The show replays at 11 p.m. EST (8 p.m. Pacific), throughout the weekend, and again at 2 and 11 p.m. EST (11 a.m. and 8 p.m. Pacific) on the following Monday.

How to Handle a Tough Chick

There are all types of women out there, and we want to be sure you know how to deal with all of them. This week, we'll be talking with two cool, tough women.

First, we have entertainment journalist Carrie Borzillo-Vrenna. She's a new guest on our show and author of the cool new book Cherry Bomb: The Ultimate Guide to Becoming a Better Flirt, A Tougher Chick, and a Hotter Girlfriend, and to Living Life Like a Rock Star, featuring stories from sexy celebrity tough chicks Dita Von Teese, Kat Von D, Katy Perry, Lisa Loeb and others.



Also on our show is another tough chick, returning guest and equally awesome sex expert Jayme Waxman.

Tune in and hear about how to approach them, how to date them, how to soften them up just enough to make sure your tough chick doesn't roll right over you.

Tune into Sex Files live on Sirius Maxim Channel 108, Wednesdays at 2 p.m. EST (11 a.m. Pacific). The show replays at 11 p.m. EST (8 p.m. Pacific), throughout the weekend, and again at 2 and 11 p.m. EST (11 a.m. and 8 p.m. Pacific) on the following Monday.

Get Her to Love the Real You

Good news today: Schlubby guys can get the girl, and it doesn't require an overhaul to do it.

We learned this from our guest New York Post writer and reporter Max Gross, author of the hilarious new book From Schlub to Stud, in which he learns how to get a girl to love you for who you really are—schlubby clothes and all.

Also on the show this week was Phil, returning guest co-author of the book What Men Don't Want Women to Know.

As Max explained, it's all about developing confidence, asking out lots and lots of girls (rejection gets easier after the umpteenth time), and letting girls see your talents—are you funny like Max? a good pool player? a good cook?

And it wouldn't hurt to hint to a girl that you'd be happy to let her make you over—you know we girls can't resist a before and after. Just be sure to put off showing her your schlubby apartment for as long as possible.

Tune into Sex Files live on Sirius Maxim Channel 108, Wednesdays at 2 p.m. EST (11 a.m. Pacific). The show replays at 11 p.m. EST (8 p.m. Pacific), throughout the weekend, and again at 2 and 11 p.m. EST (11 a.m. and 8 p.m. Pacific) on the following Monday.

Schlub = Stud?

With Seth Rogan burning up the multiplexes and Jack Black a bonafide movie star, isn't it time real men -- aka, non Brad Pitt's, who maybe have a pot belly, some unruly hair and a predilection for non-cleanliness -- got some appreciation?

That's what happened to New York Post scribe Max Gross, the author of the appropriately titled From Schlub to Stud: How to Embrace Your Inner Mensch and Conquer the Big City, who found love -- and a book contract! -- while never letting go of his inner (and outer) schlub.

Want to know how to be who you are and still snag the ladies? Tune into this week's show and let Max show (er, tell) you the way...

Tune into Sex Files live on Sirius Maxim Channel 108, Wednesdays at 2 p.m. EST (11 a.m. Pacific). The show replays at 11 p.m. EST (8 p.m. Pacific), throughout the weekend, and again at 2 and 11 p.m. EST (11 a.m. and 8 p.m. Pacific) on the following Monday.