What We Say About You When You're Not There

Girls talk. This isn't exactly a shocking revelation. But what, exactly, are we saying to our friends about you? Are we spilling every last detail of what happened between the sheets? Or are we remaining mum on the sex stuff and dissecting every aspect of your personality?

Who better to ask than those who've made a career out of writing about their mishaps and joys on the dating scene?


Tune in and listen to Judy McGuire -- who, in addition to penning the "Date Girl" column for the Seattle Weekly for the past eight years, also keeps up her Bad Advice blog and published a book, How Not to Date, which details all sorts of dates and offers advice on how to escape from the most hellish.


Joining Judy will be Twanna, a.k.a. Funky Brown Chick, whose award-winning blog, Funky Brown Chick, chronicles her feelings on men, sex and many other topics. She's also been called "one of those women who oozes sexuality." Does she belong on Sex Files or what?

Chances are, you're not dating a woman who writes about her sex and dating life. Which is why you need Judy and Twanna to tell you what they're really saying when you're not around.

Tune into Sex Files live on Sirius Maxim Channel 108, Wednesdays at 2 p.m. EST (11 a.m. Pacific). The show replays at 11 p.m. EST (8 p.m. Pacific), throughout the weekend, and again at 2 and 11 p.m. EST (11 a.m. and 8 p.m. Pacific) on the following Monday.

TONIGHT: Try Some Full Moon Love!

We just thought we'd remind you all of our last show's "Sex Tip of the Week," because it's our quest to help all couples come together as often as possible on this big blue planet.

According to research, women are 30 percent more sexually active during the full moon. And the next full moon appears... tonight! That's right, tonight, Tuesday, October 14th.

Like all things astrological, experts can’t say exactly why this happens. Some think that the gravitational pull of the moon affects women’s menstrual cycles, making her more likely to ovulate during a full moon, which makes her more randy overall. But really, who cares why she’ll be riled up? The point is to take advantage of it! So guys? Do yourselves a favor, and find a will and a way to get the woman you love in your bed tonight so you can both have a whole night of full moon love. Getting her howling is up to you.

For more great suggestions from Anna and Amy, tune into our regular live show tomorrow to find out what women are kissing-and-telling about you when you're not around.

Tune into Sex Files live on Sirius Maxim Channel 108, Wednesdays at 2 p.m. EST (11 a.m. Pacific). The show replays at 11 p.m. EST (8 p.m. Pacific), throughout the weekend, and again at 2 and 11 p.m. EST (11 a.m. and 8 p.m. Pacific) on the following Monday.

Girls Talk about Guys Sexiest Moves Ever...

Our planned guest won't be joining us this week, but we promised you a show on how to spice up your sex life, and you will get it! In fact, because we like you so much, we've decided to step up the show and make it sexier than we thought possible.

Joining us in-studio this week are three, maybe four hot girls for a real-woman discussion of what makes them hot, both in and out of the bedroom.


We suggest you take this opportunity to be a fly on the wall and listen in as a group of girls talks about sex, uncensored, just like they would if they were hanging out over cocktails. Steal whatever tips you want from our sexy female friends — just don't forget who to thank later.

Tune into Sex Files live on Sirius Maxim Channel 108, Wednesdays at 2 p.m. EST (11 a.m. Pacific). The show replays at 11 p.m. EST (8 p.m. Pacific), throughout the weekend, and again at 2 and 11 p.m. EST (11 a.m. and 8 p.m. Pacific) on the following Monday.

Join the Sex Files Radio Group!

As Anna said on the show today, the Sex Files gang has joined modern society by starting our own Facebook group. And we'd love to have all of our awesome listeners show your faces along with us.



We'll use the site as a place to collect some fans, find some new friends, post photos of our cute and sexy guests, suggest links we think you should see, and lots, lots more. What better way to feel a little warm love from Amy and Anna on a chilly night? We've already posted some shots of our guests today, so come check it out and add yourself to the "Sex Files Radio Show" group.

Here, we'll make it easy for you, because we like you that much. Just find us here and join in the Facebook fun! Sex Files Radio Show Facebook Group

Can Women Separate Love and Sex?

Well, who better to ask than the woman who wrote a compelling, amusing and disarmingly honest piece on the topic? We're talking about Jennifer Armstrong, who co-edits the witty and wise ezine Sirensmag with Heather Wood Rudolph -- who will also be joining us out of our L.A. studio. Tune in to find out if she wants to love you or just be your booty call (yes, we hear this is possible).

Tune into Sex Files live on Sirius Maxim Channel 108, Wednesdays at 2 p.m. EST (11 a.m. Pacific). The show replays at 11 p.m. EST (8 p.m. Pacific), throughout the weekend, and again at 2 and 11 p.m. EST (11 a.m. and 8 p.m. Pacific) on the following Monday.

Sex and the Single Mom

We get calls and emails from lots of you guys who are dating or want to date single women who happen to have an extra appendage of sorts: a child. And as your questions indicate, it makes dating and sex pretty dang tricky.

So this week, we're doing you all one huge favor: We're bringing two sexy, sassy single moms into the studio to explain what single moms want, need and will do anything for when it comes to dating and sex. After all, single moms obviously have sex (well, they did at least once!), and seeing how difficult taking care of a child can be, they may just be dying to have some alone time with you.

So this week, we will be joined by Christine Coppa, who writes for Glamour magazine's blog Storked!, and is currently working on Rattled!, a book about surviving as a single mom due out in April.


We also have Rachel Sarah, author of the hilarious how-hard-it-is-to-date book, Single Mom Seeking

They'll tell you how to approach a single mom, what to say, what never to say, and exactly how to work your way into a single mom's heart and, well, her bedroom. Tune in for what should be a surprisingly fun and sexy show!


Tune into Sex Files live on Sirius Maxim Channel 108, Wednesdays at 2 p.m. EST (11 a.m. Pacific). The show replays at 11 p.m. EST (8 p.m. Pacific), throughout the weekend, and again at 2 and 11 p.m. EST (11 a.m. and 8 p.m. Pacific) on the following Monday.

Talking Dirty

You've heard people doing it. Maybe you've even indulged in it yourself, or wish you were better at it.

There's definitely an art to talking dirty. And who better to explain it to us than Ellen Sussman, the editor of the oh-so-sexy-yet-erudite collection of essays Dirty Words and one of her contributors, the fierce and fabulous (and returning guest) Abiola Abrams?

Listen in for a vocab lesson far different than any you've ever had before.

Tune into Sex Files live on Sirius Maxim Channel 108, Wednesdays at 2 p.m. EST (11 a.m. Pacific). The show replays at 11 p.m. EST (8 p.m. Pacific), throughout the weekend, and again at 2 and 11 p.m. EST (11 a.m. and 8 p.m. Pacific) on the following Monday.